Responsibility. Accountability. Taking ownership, fault, pride, in your own actions and behaviors.
I am responsible for myself, and for my actions. Everything that I do, I have no one to blame but myself. There are no excuses. It is all about personal responsibility. My anger, behavior, happiness, career, life, future, finances, insecurities, lack of friends, achievements, failures, and regrets; they are all my responsibility. The good, the bad, and the in-between. There is no one else to blame, but me.
Blaming others is immature, childish, and irresponsible. It's denial. Pushing things off on others, trying to make others feel the guilt and shame. The guilt and shame is only mine. Failing to accept personal responsibility, results in negativity built up within me. The built up negativity then comes out in my behavior, actions, and anger. If I just accepted responsibility and dealt with it, it would reduce the stress, and negativity. Personal responsibility, can lead to being a much more happy, positive, and productive person.
Trying to take responsibility for others actions, is immature, arrogant and rude. Accept responsibility for your own actions, and not others. Let others do what they want, and do not question them, or judge them. Be yourself, and let others be themselves.
If I want to be happy, it is up to me to be happy. I cannot rest that on anyone else's shoulders. They have enough of their own responsibilities to take care of, and should not have to worry about me. I am responsible for me, and my future.
I can't continue to think that everything is going to work it self out, and that life is just magically going to happen. Life is not a fairy tale. I am responsible for me, and for achieving what I want. Life goes exactly where I tell it to go, based off of my choices, actions and behaviors.
What I do, and what I don't do, is completely up to me. It is not the responsibility of others to pick me up when I fall. It is my responsibility to get back up, and keep on running. Life is like a marathon, you're the only one that can get you through it. You just have to do it. It is not about not loving anyone, or wanting to be alone; but about maturing, and growing up. Learning to be, just me.
A relationship isn't about depending on someone else. Relationships are not for having someone to blame, and it's not excusable to blame them for anything. Love is about sharing your life with someone, letting them inside of your life, and letting yourself inside of theirs. Sharing your life, does not mean you should give up your own life, or make them give up their life. Relationships should not require you to be dependent, or to lose your independence.
I am responsible for me.
I am held accountable for me.
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