I must find an independent happiness, deep within me. I must learn to be happy, regardless of whether I have someone to share it with or not. I need to learn, that happiness does not require anyone else, but it welcomes it. I cannot offer my whole self to someone, and give everything to someone, until I can be happy with myself, and love myself. You cannot love another, until you can love yourself. I have to love me. I have to be happy.
Happiness is life. Happiness is not a destination, it's a journey.
If I can learn to be independently happy, then it will help me much more, when I'm in a relationship. I need this independence. I need this freedom. Happiness needs to remain, regardless of the stresses and pitfalls of life. Road bumps happen, sometimes things go perfect, sometimes they go horribly wrong, but I must maintain peace and happiness.
It's not about ignoring what goes wrong, but more of accepting them, and learning that it's all part of life. The bad helps you enjoy the good. The good helps you dream of greatness. It's all achievable. It starts with putting a smile on your face, and thinking positively.
Yes, I lost my girlfriend, and my bestfriend; but it is not the end of the world. It is just a lesson of life, and a challenge that I must face on my own. What doesn't kill you, only makes you stronger. As hard as it is too look forward, and to get over this, I must do it. I cannot sit here and wallow in self pity, cry, and whine. It isn't getting me anywhere, and is only deterring me from progressing and bettering myself. I cannot let my heartbreak distract me.
While I still love her, and I am holding on to hope, that in the end she will return; I must focus on me. Keep a clear, and strong focus on me, and what I want to be, and how I'm going to get there.
Positivity, and happiness, will help me achieve my goals, and get me what I want most in life. Sadness and self pity, is only going to hinder my chances of reaching out for success. Life will pass me by before I know it, if I don't focus.
I'm working on happy. I'm working on me.
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